movingversary!

My boyfriend and I are moving in together soon. The date we move also happens to be our two year anniversary. He wants to celebrate a few days after we move, but the thing is, it's the first and maybe the last anniversary that we will be together. Last year he was deployed, next year he will also be deployed. Who knows what will happen at four years! I know it's more logical,but I hate that he's always gone on important days. He's yet to be here for my birthday and likely won't be around my next birthday either. I just want one important day that we can celebrate together on the right date. Is that too much to ask? Can't we just move everything early and have a nice romantic night together? I know it would be hard, but I'm willing to move quickly if it means having a normal anniversary for once. It's probably the only thing about the navy that I think really effects me. Holidays and anniversaries were always big deals in my family. I am willing to switch dates sometimes when we have to, but if there's any way to celebrate on time then I want to!